When a loved one passes away, coming to terms with their death and overcoming your grief can is very essential. Different people grieve differently after the death of a loved one. There are some positive as well as negative ways that people use to cope with grief. Here we will discuss five positive and five negative ways. (more…)
Anger is one of many emotional reactions that a person experiences while grieving the loss of a close family member or a dear friend. Anger is a natural, human response when faced with the reality of death. It can be related to protest to ward off the devastating reality in front of you and how suddenly everything has changed in your life.
One mysterious topic that people fear to discuss about is that of a ghost. There are so many fearful stories related to ghosts that people often avoid this kind of topic. At the same time different people of different era have different viewpoints regarding ghosts, why people become ghost after death, who can see a ghost, how can a ghost can cause you trouble and so on. Due to so many viewpoints, it becomes very difficult to judge between the real and unreal facts.
People often think about the reasons as why people become a ghost. To come up with a final conclusion regarding why people become ghosts after their death, here are certain explanations given by different people and organizations.
The traditional view of ghosts is that they are the spirits of dead people that for some reason are ‘stuck’ between this plane of existence and the next, often as a result of some tragedy or trauma. Many ghost hunters and psychics believe that such earth-bound spirits don’t know they are dead. Veteran ghost hunter Hans Holzer wrote, “A ghost is a human being who has passed out of the physical body, usually in a traumatic state and is not aware usually of his true condition. We are all spirits encased in a physical body. At the time of passing, our spirit body continues into the next dimension. A ghost, on the other hand, due to trauma, is stuck in our physical world and needs to be released to go on.”
According to Wikipedia, “In traditional belief and fiction, a ghost (sometimes known as a spectre (British English) or specter (American English), phantom, apparition or spook) is the soul or spirit of a dead person or animal that can appear, in visible form or other manifestation, to the living.”
Extensive research work has been done by the Spiritual Science Research Foundation (SSRF) to help people understand ghosts in a better manner. According to the official website of Spiritual Science Research Foundation, it is said that “When a person dies only his physical body ceases to exist. His subtle body (consisting of the subconscious mind, intellect, ego and soul, i.e. minus the physical body) however continues to exist and moves on to the other regions of the universe.” Further according to this site, “People are likely to become ghosts after their death when:
There is another website Crystalinks.com where ghosts are defined as “spirits that come into manifestation in ectoplasmic form. They are spirits trapped between dimensions – usually third and fourth dimension. As with all things – ghosts have their own frequency signatures.”
At another website named www.healinghauntedhouses.com detailed information is provided by the writer about ghosts, spirits and other energies.
In order to understand the scientific explanation behind ghost sightings, you can check these sites www.cracked.com and www.aformerskeptic.com. There are also references about ghosts in the holy Bible. To have some idea about what does the Bible says about ghosts and haunting, check this website www.gotquestions.org.
To conclude, some say people become ghost as they have unfinished business, some say there is nothing called ghost and some say the soul does not want to move logically forward and progress in life. Well, now it is up to you as whether you want to believe in ghosts or not.
Whenever we experience some kind of loss especially in regards to death, it is very natural to ask questions related to faith and spirituality. Different sections of people have different viewpoints regarding faith. For some it is confusing, for some it is the only way to get comfort, and for some it is the only way to explore new things.
Grief is a very normal and natural internal reaction to any kind of loss. It is very essential to learn to cope with grief or else it may cause unnecessary problems in your life. When grief is not handled in a proper manner, people may develop addictions, depression, anxiety, panic attacks. Well, if proper support is not available to the grieving person, he or she can have panic attacks. A person will have panic attacks when the processing of grief gets stuck or pushed to one side. This means the associated emotions that a person needs to show while grieving has somehow been avoided. (more…)